Silent Retreats: What to Expect
- David Peppler, Sr.
- Apr 8
- 2 min read

If you’re considering attending a silent retreat for the first time, it’s natural to have plenty of questions. Here’s an overview of what you can expect:
What is a Silent Retreat?
A silent retreat is an enriching experience designed to deepen your relationship with God. These retreats typically last anywhere from 24 hours to several days and are often set in serene, natural environments that encourage reflection and connection. The primary objective is to eliminate distractions—like cell phones and laptops—so you can focus solely on your spiritual journey.
What Materials Will Be Provided?
Participants receive meditation guides that outline daily themes and practices to enhance their spiritual focus. These materials may include prayer prompts, Scripture readings, and suggested activities like prayer walking or nature immersion. While the guides are there to facilitate your experience, the true essence of your time with God is personal and may unfold in unique ways beyond the planned activities.
Spiritual Experience Expectations
Expect the spiritual outcomes of a silent retreat to be diverse and personal. Each individual’s experience will be shaped by their openness to connect with God. It’s essential to come with a mindset that embraces the unknown, as this retreat provides a canvas for personal revelations and insights. The ultimate goal is for you to find your way to the heart of God and let that guide your experience.
Opportunities for Speaking
While the retreat emphasizes silence, there are optional "talking times" in the evenings. These sessions allow participants to share their experiences and insights based on that day’s reflections. Such gatherings can foster connection and support among pilgrims, offering opportunities for encouragement and spiritual discussion without crossing into therapy.
Individual Support
If you wish to explore specific concerns during the retreat, optional coaching sessions are available. These 30-minute sessions focus on spiritual discernment and can provide clarity on what you’re experiencing during your time of silence. This support is offered at no additional cost and can be a valuable part of your retreat journey.
Retreat Format
When you arrive, you’ll receive detailed information regarding meal times, meeting schedules, and your meditation guide. The structure is designed to promote a balance of guided meditation, personal reflection, and optional group sharing, all while maintaining the overarching focus of your spiritual pilgrimage.
By entering this retreat with an open heart and a willingness to engage deeply with your faith, you’re setting the stage for a transformative experience.
I do not apply pressure for the optional talking times or coaching sessions, nor do I push my coaching practice on participants of retreats. This is an experience designed to bring you closer to God, nothing more, nothing less, nothing else.
What questions do you have for me concerning what to expect at a silent retreat the way I lead them? Feel free to email me: dave@peptalkministries.com. You can find me on the web at peptalkministries.com, as well as Facebook and other social media outlets.